Why do you always tell me at the last minute? Think of my position too.
为什么你总是到最后关头才告诉我?你也替我想想啊!
Worry kills more men than work.
忧虑比劳累更伤人。
In the early morning, the food that had been laid out for the dead is thrown into a river or into the sea as it is considered unlucky for anyone living to eat it.